Gold diggers are an interesting breed, and that's putting it mildly.
It's sickening how some folks seem to be oblivious to being "had". That they think or want to feel that they are actually being loved and/or cared about. To falsely be made to think that the other person actually cares for them, that the fact that they will be coming into a great deal of money has nothing to do with it. Yeah right. But instead are being fed a line of shit.
To then be taken advantage of emotionally probably, but taken advantage of financially in that it will effect my kids just kills me.
Wake up and smell the coffee. Sigh. While you may feel you are "soul mates" or so "in love", it's not a stretch to think that the other person only is sticking around because of your "money potential". Especially while knowing that she has known from the very beginning. She knew your cousin 15 years ago and that the family had money back then, don't fool yourself. Take a step back and really look at what her attraction is to you, regardless of your feelings toward her.
A pre nuptual only takes care of the money you bring into a marriage, not if you get money and wealth dropped into your lap after you're married. And that's even if you get a prenuptual. Is it possible for you to consider creating some type of will and or testament to ensure that the kids get their share, rather than seeing it disappear being taken by this gold digger? The kids and most other folks see this very clearly, it seems everyone but you.
To see how in less than a year, this person has gotten her grip around your financial future and stands to get alot of money just kills me. To think of how she ended up with such a big house and all the trimmings from her probable break up a few years back, and learn how her business is done, at least online, and now how she is suing a local business to try and get money, you are out of your mind.
I would like to think you haven't lost all of your marbles, please look at securing your children's financial future by getting something legally set up to protect them and their inheritance. You seem to have been choosing her over your own children. Really look at why your kids have been upset with the way you've been acting/thinking. Your children want to love you (I believe), but you need to snap out of this if you want to have any relationship with them. I'm out of the loop, I'm truly just looking out for the kids future.
Hey it may be a way to also see if this gold digger sticks around to just be with you. Take this challenge, I hope you have the guts to actually look into this.
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Well, Janet, you do not have to worry about gold diggers. Susan had said all along that she might have only been a place for me to land. Through me, she has met someone far more spiritual than I am. In doing so, she has become the lover of Adrian. Yes, he had left Wendy and come to stay with us. Within the week, Susan & I were done. I am now looking about for a place to go. I own not a spoon or a fork. I'm sure that this is a vindication for you.
I'm sorry for the pain and anger that I caused you. I recognize it completely.
Schagen Freude
Karma's a bitch.
Interesting how all of the comments you told folks months ago about you two being soulmates, and connecting on so many other levels, now you change it to a place to land. Pahleeze.
"I recognize it completely", what, now you expect me to feel sorry for your ass?! What bullshit.
For you to have been fucking all the women during our marriage, and even propositioning one before we married, (and for you to make reference to "my anger regarding your fucking around and that is why you settled in the manner in which you did") and to brag about it to me, and tell me it was because you were so unhappy for 20 years, blah blah blah. You lied to me all of those years, and made me feel it was all my fault because I didn't act a certain way, fuck you.
Just keep your sorry ass away from me, go back into the hole you dug for yourself.
Oh, and don't give yourself all the credit. "Through you" she met....what entire bullshit.
I still am angry with myself for not seeing you as the asshole that you have been all along.
I'm remembering an email that you sent off to A**** and W**** all those months ago telling them about your new love, blah blah blah, and poor Jan doesn't have a clue. What an asshole you are.
My heart goes out to W**** back in Florida, I hope she is able to remain strong through this mess.
I don't need nor do I want this drama crap in my life. Keep your shit to yourself, I'm not cleaning it up this time.
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