To Make Yourself Out To Be A Victim

How angry I became when I found out about the bitch badmouthing my kids, because they are being such 'bad kids' to their father. What's worse is how dear old dad didn't dispute any of it. Oh poor me, the kids don't love me anymore.... What a nice understanding 'holistic healer' who is so understanding about what the kids are having to deal with.
It's a good thing I wasn't there, how dare she bad mouth my kids.
Also changing actual events, from when R changed locks and L and his bitch took the 45 minute tour, to; boo hoo, R wouldn't let me into my own house. Oh poor me....Bullshit. Thankfully R was able to tell the truth about what actually happened.
Also L has been rewriting history regarding the drug bust et all. Terrible that there are just too many witnesses that were there that really know what happened.
Strike three you're out.

With the ugly comments made about the kids, and all of his remarks about his 'new' family, it makes me wonder about how he feels about his 'old' family. In regard to the disposition of the pistols/inheritance that he may not give to the kids as previously agreed upon, I would like to think that he hasn't gone off his rocker too far. I'm certainly seeing him very clearly now and his actions speak volumes.
At mediation I gave him these pistols, I then told him how I hoped that he would give them to the kids, with that he told me how he was still upset with our son not talking to him. So I told him how BOTH kids were having a very hard time dealing with our divorce, and then he said well S is still talking to me. I would like my kids to have a father, but he has to do alot of soul searching and rehab and get healthy. I only hope my kids are still around for him when he's ready to act/be their father again.

Oh how I wish I had bought this shirt....

Frivolity And Mirth

On Monday, dozens of sword-wielding Hindu activists used loudspeakers in the central city of Bhopal to ask couples to stay indoors on Tuesday. “We oppose it (Valentine’s Day) tooth and nail because the concept has come from the West and through it an attempt is being made to spoil Indian culture,” said Devendra Rawat, a spokesman for radical Hindu outfit Bajrang Dal in the city. “Our teams will visit parks frequented by boys and girls and teach them a lesson.” In Mumbai activists of the Shiv Sena, a right-wing pro-Hindu political party, on Sunday vandalised a gift shop. The activists said they would also target hotels and restaurants that offered special romantic deals on Tuesday.

The 'Bah Humbug' of Valentine's Day

Yeah, Happy Valentine's Day.

Being Remembered

I was surprised by beautiful flowers being delivered today. They are gorgeous and smell incredible.
I have to admit that I had been feeling a bit alone with Valentine's Day just around the corner, and the flowers just made my day.
Being remembered in this special way, made me feel like a million, and very loved.
Thanks to my son and daughter who have just been wonderful to me and I really appreciate it. I love you guys too :)

BOOYA!

I am so very proud of my daughter.
She will be graduating with three majors, Music, Japanese and Cum Laude Fine Arts.
I was just able to reserve a room on campus for this wonderful celebration, and am very happy about this. This room has a patio/deck outside facing the Flat Irons in Boulder.
Several family and friends will be flying in for this wonderful occasion to help congratulate my daughter in all of her wonderful achievements.
I've just learned a new word, "booya", (It means basically, "bam!", "in your face", and "hell yeah", all at the same time. A term that self congradulates the user, describes excitement, lets others know the magnificence of the celebration or rouse as well as the superiority of the user, and is used as an exclamation of those ideas.)

BOOYA! BOOYA! BOOYA!